As marrieds, we need to spice up our marriage on a daily basis to keep it glowing and blossoming.
Why is it that it comes so easy to show romance to each other during courtship and the story changes after marriage? Men especially stops all the sweet nothings they tell us, all the opening of doors to let us make our entry or exit first, frequent hang out at the beach and eateries, strolling and taking walk together, holding of hands and lots more......
Kissing, cuddling, hugging each other for example, should not be ceremonial (done only during anniversaries or when happy). It should be a way of life in the marriage not only when mating or copulating together. Make your marriage fun and filled with romantic and memorable moments.
Husband stop being stiff show some love to your spouse and vice versa. Don't let your wife start feeling strange when you come back home and make the move to kiss or hug her and she withdraws due to the fact that she is seeing it as as STRANGE rather let her get used to it. When same is done to you, kindly embrace and welcome it regardless of the situation in the office or in line of business.
It is time to stop using our jobs, carrier & business as excuses for not doing the right thing. Don't forget that when job, carrier, business leave us, the only thing by our side will be our spouse.
The most important thing at that moment is your wife or husband, every other thing comes after. The good thing about being romantic is that it sets a good atmosphere for any issue to be thrashed.
The result is security, love, mutual respect in the marriage. You will be surprised that you both live healthier, worry less and fight less...lol.
For the men, it is a good ground for the battle field also ahead... Marriage is meant to be enjoyed. Cuddle your spouse, flirt with him or her regularly, crack jokes and laugh like kids regularly. Social media is not helping matters, as we now cuddle, joke, in fact make love on the internet...this is really ANNOYING. Let's be conscious of each others feelings and go practical in expressing it.
To the Charming women out there, please I know our men can get on our nerves at times (and we also do to them...lol) never use your precious gift as a punishment for your husbands. Do the needful and settle matters amicably.... I know it's not easy, but WE can if we set our minds to it.
Our children takes cue from our loving and romance filled life. They grow up too to be loving and appreciative kids. This will also help them in their own relationships
Never reject your man or woman in time of need o ...don't say I didn't tell you ☺☺...lots of love...
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