5 BASIC NEEDS OF YOUR HUSBAND. ARE YOU MEETING THEM?

When you love your husband  and want to make him happy, you will fulfill his needs. Doing so does not make you inferior to him. 

Are you doing that?

Unselfishness is the key to a successful marriage. If you can put your spouse's needs above your own, you are on the right track. Having the desire to fulfill your husband's needs is in no way submitting yourself to an inferior role as a wife. If you truly love your spouse, then you want to make him happy, and these five things generally make men happy - simple as that. Love me love my pet!

As different as their needs may seem; however, according to Willard F. Harley Jr., most men have the same basic needs. While each person is unique, these needs are what most men pick on average.
 

Companionship

My husband and I barely have things in common, especially when it comes to hobbies. We enjoy doing our own things - which can be good in a marriage. I am  a dance freak, my husband is not and so on. But when we spend time together doing what he likes, it's often a win-win. Show your husband you care about him by showing some interest in his hobbies. Be his companion and enjoy being in his company. He may even reciprocate and spend the day doing what you want to do!
 

Sexual fulfillment
I know this can be a touchy subject, but it's an important one. Learn to never treat intimacy like a

Celebrating Oluwatosin Mojeed!

Thank God is Friday! Can't wait for weekend grooves, even when there is no outing...somehow, we all look forward to it....So enjoy it while it last....

Today we are celebrating our Charming mother and wife ..OluwaTosin Mojeed....Happy birthday Girl....today March 31st marks the beginning of another beautiful year in your life.  God bless you real good. Lots of Love!

Tosin, please keep unleashing the powerful 'Charm' God has bestowed on you. 

I NEED A FRIEND

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Friendship and quality time together are important factors for a successful relationship. 

Everyone regardless of the sex, race or ethnic cherish and revere true friendship. To your best friend, everything is laid bare without holding back. You cry together,

Marriage Vows! To Regard or Disregard

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Marriage vows are meant to be kept and honored. As we grow older, it is expected to love each other more...


However, the levity and lack of seriousness with which people regard marriage vows today is a clear indication that they do not regard these vows. 


Who would you say disregard marriage vows - Man or Woman....


Send your response by commenting in the box below.


Do have a great day!

Are You Ready To Date?

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Avoid becoming an Emotional Wreck from a Failed Dating Experience by setting up clear and firm boundaries before you decide to go into it. 

The questions below is worth asking and answering sincerely before embarking on the journey.

•  Why do I have to date him or her? - Get the motive right from the onset?

•   What to do I aim to gain from this experience? - Have clear and correct goals?

•   How will I handle this in a way that I will not displease or sin against my God? - Set boundaries  according to His Statutes in The Bible?

•   Am I ready to be real? Your real self has to come to play, there is no room for pretense in other to avoid misleading the other person. 

•  How will I handle this in a way that I will not hurt myself or the other person in the long run? - Again, set boundaries!

•  Do I consider myself mature enough physically, spiritually and emotionally to handle the relationship in a healthy and safe way? - Do not  compromise your godly virtues and standards by exposing yourself to temptations that could cause you to fail in keeping your set boundaries

• Do I have a sense of divine guidance towards relating with the person; or am I only responding to my emotions?  - Don't run ahead of God; if you do, you get to a point that forces you to run back, after exposing yourself to pain and regret that could have easily been avoided!

To the dating couples out there, accept our best wishes!

TO THE MARRIEDS AND ENGAGED COUPLES

 

1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength. 

2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging into one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can't be changed. So Focus on the present and the future! 

3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES*

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The 10 Commandments For All The Single Ladies Out THERE

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1. Don’t be in a hurry to move out of your parent’s house.
 

2. Don’t wait for a man before you start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman.
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3. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special.
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I Don't Want To Be Single

                                                                                    
We are created with a legitimate right to belong. It is therefore natural to feel accepted and loved Relationships are vital part of our lives. As we mature, naturally, we have a drive towards more serious relationships.  Almost everyone desires some form of a stable relationship. 

The standards and expectations of the society we live in put a lot of pressure on the youths, driving many into relationships without careful consideration of the implications. The challenges of relationships begins for many as a result of the quick decision taken.

However, Singlehood is a unique phase of life to be enjoyed and maximized and not a phase to be endured. The success of future relationships very much depends on what we make of this period. Contrary to popular belief, you can enjoy life and have fun, fun that does not jeopardise the future!

Singlehood is a time to work hard. It is a time in which most of the life decisions you make can cumulatively affect what the rest of your life will be. 

As you develop your physical being (education, career etc), develop holistically: spirit, soul and body.

The wellbeing of your mind is essential to your general wellbeing. Unstable emotions will destabilise and cripple your personality. 

Stay tuned and Enjoy a great and fulfilling week!