Avoid becoming an Emotional Wreck from a Failed Dating Experience by setting up clear and firm boundaries before you decide to go into it.
The questions below is worth asking and answering sincerely before embarking on the journey.
- Why do I have to date him or her? - Get the motive right from the onset?
- What to do I aim to gain from this experience? - Have clear and correct goals?
- How will I handle this in a way that I will not displease or sin against my God? - Set boundaries according to His Statutes in The Bible?
- Am I ready to be real? Your real self has to come to play, there is no room for pretense in other to avoid misleading the other person.
- How will I handle this in a way that I will not hurt myself or the other person in the long run? - Again, set boundaries!
- Do I consider myself mature enough physically, spiritually and emotionally to handle the relationship in a healthy and safe way? - Do not compromise your godly virtues and standards by exposing yourself to temptations that could cause you to fail in keeping your set boundaries
- Do I have a sense of divine guidance towards relating with the person; or am I only responding to my emotions? - Don't run ahead of God; if you do, you get to a point that forces you to run back, after exposing yourself to pain and regret that could have easily been avoided!
To the dating couples out there, accept our best wishes!
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